Il Rettore is due to take the funeral of an old
friend – but not as a clergyman, just as a friend, as the gentleman was a determined
atheist. ‘We knew each other well enough to argue about it’, he told me over
coffee.
I mentioned that a little while ago a couple I know well
asked whether the funeral of their son, who’d died suddenly in his 30s, could
be held in the church. They aren’t Christians, and for a few hours I didn’t
realise they were asking for a funeral service in their own tradition. There is
no chance of this happening: canon law says specifically that any act of
worship in a church must not ‘be contrary to, nor indicative of any departure
from, the doctrine of the Church of England in any essential matter’, and an
act of non-Christian worship clearly is that. Thankfully I know the people well
enough for them not to take my refusal personally, and they’d already been
warned by a knowledgeable friend this would probably be the case.
At almost the same time someone I know posted on LiberFaciorum
a link to the funeral of Stuart Brogan, who ran the Wyrdraven Viking shop in
Glastonbury. This took place in Glastonbury parish church and was led jointly
by Revd Diana Greenfield, the ‘Avalon Pioneer Minister’ who worked (she’s moved
on very recently) with alternative communities in and around Glastonbury, and a
pagan officiant. Revd Diana said at the start that the service would ‘reflect
Stu’s respect for a variety of faiths’, but while the pagan officiant mentioned
pagan deities and ideas, there was no specifically Christian content to the
service at all as far as I could see or hear. Local media referred to the service
as a ‘heathen funeral’, which didn’t seem unfair.
Without delving into the specifics of Mr Brogan’s funeral
and why it came about in the way it did, I don’t think I could have taken part with
any integrity. A church isn’t a neutral space as a crematorium properly is, and
the presence of a Christian minister isn’t neutral either. I want to welcome
everyone, but I also want to welcome them to something – to Christ’s presence,
and to the place where he has promised to be. I don't think I can do that unless he is
named.
HE will be mentioned by name, D. V.
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